terça-feira, 2 de novembro de 2010

O LADO VERDADEIRO (REAL, QUE AQUI NADA É INVENTADO!) DE RICHARD GARDNER

Eu fazia já a minha ideia sobre este senhor, mas agora sim, descobri a verdade:


Suicide Dr. Richard Gardner's Complete Autopsy Report




Dr. Richard Gardner, M.D.
born April 28, 1931


Committed Suicide
May 25, 2003

"CAUSE OF DEATH:
Incised wounds of chest and neck."


Allow us to disabuse the pro-abusers. Dr. Richard Gardner's son told the New York Times that his father committed suicide. Contrary to false assertions made by the father's rights movement, Richard Gardner most certainly did not die peacefully in his sleep.

It was far uglier than that.

The Bergen County (New Jersey) Medical Examiner reported that Dr. Richard Gardner died a gory, bloody and violent death - from his own hand. Gardner took an overdose of prescription medication while stabbing himself several times in the neck and chest. Gardner plunged a butcher knife deep into his heart.

The medical examiner removed the knife from Gardner's chest and listed the stabbing wounds as the cause of death.


(Here is Gardner's autopsy report and the NY Times obituary.)




County Of Bergen
Department of Public Safety
Medical Examiner Autopsy Report

May 27, 2003
02030860.aut
GARDNER, Richard A.
















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New York Times
June 9, 2003, Monday
METROPOLITAN DESK
Richard Gardner, 72, Dies;
Cast Doubt on Abuse Claims
By STUART LAVIETES
"Dr. Richard A. Gardner, a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who developed a theory about parental alienation syndrome, which he said could lead children in high-conflict custody cases to falsely accuse a parent of abuse, died on May 25 at his home in Tenafly, N.J. He was 72.
The cause was suicide, said Dr. Gardner's son, Andrew, who said his father had been distraught over the advancing symptoms of reflex sympathetic dystrophy, a painful neurological syndrome.
Dr. Gardner, who testified in more than 400 child custody cases, maintained that children who suffered from parental alienation syndrome had been indoctrinated by a vindictive parent and obsessively denigrated the other parent without cause.
In severe cases, he recommended that courts remove children from the homes of the alienating parents and place them in the custody of the parents accused of abuse.
His theory has provoked vehement opposition from some mental health professionals, child abuse experts and lawyers. Critics argue that it lacks a scientific basis, noting that the American Psychiatric Association and the American Medical Association have not recognized it as a syndrome.
They also say that the theory is biased against women, as allegations of abuse are usually directed at fathers, and that it is used as a weapon by lawyers seeking to undermine a mother's credibility in court." ...
... "His marriage to Lee Gardner ended in divorce. In addition to his son, of Cherry Hill, N.J., he is survived by two daughters, Nancy Gardner Rubin of Potomac, Md., and Julie Gardner Mandelcorn, of Newton, Mass.; his mother, Amelia Gardner of Manhattan; eight grandchildren; and his partner, Natalie Weiss.
Correction: June 14, 2003, Saturday An obituary on Monday about Dr. Richard A. Gardner, a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, misstated his position at Columbia University. He was a clinical professor of psychiatry in the division of child and adolescent psychiatry -- an unpaid volunteer -- not a professor of child psychiatry."
End of Obituary Excerpt


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A comment about Dr. Richard Gardner's suicide released by the last man to cross examine him, attorney Richard Ducote:


¬Ý¬ÝJune 1, 2003

"Parental Alienation Syndrome is a bogus, pro-pedophillic fraud concocted by Richard Gardner. I was the last attorney to cross examine Gardner. In Paterson, NJ, he admitted that he has not spoken to the Dean of Columbia's medical school for over 15 years, and has not had hospital admitting privileges for over 25 years.


He has not been court appointed to do anything for decades.


The only two appellate courts in the country who have considered the question of whether PAS meets the Frye test, i.e., whether it is generally accepted in the scientific community, said it does not. As Dr. Paul Fink, former president of the American Psychiatric Association has stated, Dr. Gardner and PAS should be only a "pathetic footnote" in psychiatric history. Gardner and his bogus theory have done untold damage to sexually and physically abused children and their protective parents. PAS has been rejected by every reputable organization considering it.


In a Florida case in which I was recently involved, when the judge insisted on a Frye hearing, Gardner simply did not show up. Perhaps because he finally realized that the entire nation was on to his scam, he committed suicide on May 25. Let's pray that his ridiculous, dangerous PAS foolishness died with him."

Richard Ducote
attorney at law
New Orleans, LA




Dr. Richard Gardner, seen here at age 67 in February 1999, authored the money making PAS theory that made him a very rich man. Gardner committed suicide on May 25, 2003, plunging a seven inch butcher knife into his neck and heart.
Gardner testified mostly for men, charging $500 per hour, routinely recommending custody to abusers, deprogramming children and threat therapy for mothers. Gardner was against society's overly moralistic and punitive reaction to pedophiles.
To get a better understanding of the damage Dr. Richard Gardner did in his lifetime, go to this link:

Dr. Richard Gardner - Parental Alienation Syndrome





"I know no safe depository of the ultimate powers of society but the people themselves; and if we think them not enlightened enough to exercise their control with a wholesome discretion, the remedy is not to take it from them, but to inform their discretion."

Thomas Jefferson, 1820


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Fonte: http://www.cincinnatipas.com/dr-richardgardnerautopsy.html




Entretanto, no tal link referido mais acima, encontrei isto:

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The father's rights movement, true to their disinformation habit, comicly ignore the facts regarding their hero's gory death for the simple reason that it makes Richard Gardner appear mentally unbalanced, which of course he was.

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Did Richard Gardner Also Cause 16 year old Nathan Grieco's Suicide?
The Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, in performing their civic duty to inform and enlighten, ran a two part investigative story on a tragic custody war in their city in which Dr. Richard Gardner became personally involved as an expert witness.

Dr. Gardner interviewed the allegedly abusive father but did not interview the mother nor the three boys at the center of the custody dispute. Nevertheless, Gardner diagnosed "a classical case of PAS" based upon his conversations with his paying client. He called the mother and her three sons "sadistic" and recommended that they be "coerced" (he actually used that word) into making the boys visit their father.

Gardner recommended to the Pittsburgh judge something he called "Threat Therapy", in which the mother should be jailed if the boys did not visit their physically and mentally abusive father. In regard to accusing mothers, Gardner believed that therapists do well to "sober" them up. Otherwise, the children might think that a "heinous crime" has been committed.

Despite its' questionable constitutionality, the Pittsburgh judge went along with Gardner's forced visit "threat therapy" recommendation and what's more, the mother was ordered to deliver the boys in a positive frame of mind or be held for sanctions. The oldest boy, 16 year old Nathan Grieco soon after suffered a nervous breakdown, was hospitalized and eventually committed suicide.

Nathan's mother went public 2 weeks after his death, blaming Dr. Richard Gardner and Pittsburgh Judge John J. Driscoll. Her story created a national outcry.

Click below to read this Pittsburgh family's heart wrenching story and see why it is that so many right thinking mental health and legal professionals regard Dr. Richard Gardner as having been nothing more than a dangerous con man.



Estamos finalmente elucidados!

Mas o que fazer para travar tamanha loucura, antes que gere uma onde de suicídios?

A LETRA ESCARLATE

Chamo, desde já, a vossa atenção para o final deste post. Não deixeis de o ler na íntegra, pois tem muito que se diga.

Em outros tempos, as mulheres Adúlteras usaram um A vermelho escarlate, bordado na roupa, para que o seu acto, tivesse ele acontecido ou não, fosse visível a todos.

Hoje, nestes novos tempos modernos, querem rotular-nos (as estatísticas apontam mais para a mulher) de Alienadoras. Só nos falta o A escarlate na testa. Há quem o veja.

As medidas propostas pelos movimentos de pais separados (eles, na sua maioria) têm como propósito punir quem quer que seja que apresente -mesmo tratando-se de uma suspeita- um comportamento "anormal". Advertências, multas, perdas do poder paternal e até mesmo a prisão, tudo fica registado na folha. Ganha-se cadastro.


Ser-se um(a) cadastrado(a) vem, sem dúvida, facilitar-nos a vida. Todos os nossos problemas e todas as nossas inquitações desaparecem. Para não falar do imenso orgulho que os nossos filhos sentirão em saber que somos tão bem compreendidos e tão bem aceites pela sociedade.

Em todos os tempos sempre houve mulheres acusadas de histeria, bruxaria e outras coisas mais. Muitas apodreceram na prisão, outras foram queimadas vivas.

O nosso século, dito de mentes muito superiores, não foge à regra. São XXI séculos de atraso.

Mas porque razão age o Homem assim?
Porque -digo-vos eu, e sabeis que não minto- a sociedade o aliena.

A ignorância do Homem não tem limites.

Aconselho-vos a ver este vídeo, e a encontrar as diferenças entre aquele tempo e o nosso, onde, dizem alguns, chegou o "avanço civilizacional". Não deixem de ver a continuação (vídeos 10-11-12-13-14 e o final). Vale mesmo a pena ver. Importa, sobretudo, reflectir. Haverá um final feliz, também para nós?



NOTA IMPORTANTE:

Nem de propósito!!! Escrevi hoje este post e quando, mais tarde, fui preencher um formulário que me é pedido, eis que deparo com uma questão a que, inevitavelmente, terei de responder! Para verdes.

16. Incarcération?
Si OUI, Nom et Adresse de l'établissement pénitenciaire:_________________
_________________________________________________________________________

Nº d'écrou:______________

Date d'entrée:/__/__/____
Date de sortie:/__/__/____


Confesso que já apanhei algumas multas (por mau estacionamento), mas nunca recebi ordem de prisão.
O que dirão aqueles (eu diria mais aquelas) que venham a ser encarcerados por algo que não fizeram, ou por algo que até fizeram por uma razão qualquer (na maioria das vezes, uma razão bem válida)?

E os filhos, como ficam nessa história?



Partilho convosco a resposta que o Leonardo me deu ontem, dia 2 de Novembro, no post ALIENAÇÃO PARENTAL: O OUTRO LADO DA QUESTÃO.

Leonardo Rodrigues disse...
quando saiu a lei de alienação parental, achei um grande avanço no judiciario, contudo esse modismo levou os advogados por qualquer motivo alegarem que a genitora está alienando as crianças. primeiro, sou homem e possuo guarda compartilhada de meus tres filhos. segundo minha nova companheira que tem duas filhas esta sendo acusada de alienação parental e eu de abuso sexual devido o pai impantar memórias falsas na menina de 4 anos. mesmo com todas as investigações realizadas, nada foi solicitado pela juiza e hj afastado de minha companheira ainda ela pode perder a guarda das crianças por esse motivo banal(modismo).
ja não swi mais a quem recorrer!

2 de Novembro de 2010 15:04

Hoje, dia 4 de Novembro, eis que me surge outra "feliz" coincidência: no canal 2, um programa intitulado "je sors de prison: vais-je pouvoir revivre en couple?"

Pas facil, bien sûr!
Un des messieurs nous disait qu'il avait passé presque toute sa majorité en prison et que, depuis, il avait du mal a accepter toute sorte d'autorité. Voilà un des problèmes. Pas le seul.

RECUSO-ME A SER BARRIGA DE ALUGUER!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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